Hey girls, today I’m going to talk to you about how to get him back in your arms, before he moves on and finds another girl.
Relationships end all the time, I should know because I’ve helped dozens of people in your situation before, and guess what? Plenty of broken relationships get repaired!
If your ex boyfriend means something to you, something that you don’t want to let go of, then you have to read every word of this article.
I am a guy myself, I know how to male mind works and trust me, by the end of this article I’m going to show you how to get right inside your ex boyfriends head that he is going to be begging for you to come back.
Ok, so the first thing I want to tell you is a big mistake I see girls making that don’t know how to get him back with them. You see, they try to use logic to persuade their ex boyfriend that they are the best for them.
One of my close pals split up with his girlfriend a few months back, and his ex was totally in love with him, so much so that she kept contacting me trying to persuade him to get back with her!
She was going about it totally the wrong way. She was sending him essays after essays on social networking sites and by texts about how much he meant to her, and how she is the only girl that “gets” him.
She then started going into detail about how well she treated him, how she was at university and was going to get a good job, how her family had money, all sorts of stuff like this! Can you imagine if love worked this way?
If you could convince someone to love you by sending a dossier over to them about the advantages of being in a relationship with them, then the world would just be full of guys learning how to write great reports to send off to supermodels!
Love cannot be ignited, or reignited, by logic. Love just happens.
Do you think if people were in love with each other out of logic, that some girls would date guys that treat them like dirt, constantly cheat on them and generally don’t care? Of course not!
Love is an emotional feeling, and if you want to get him back, you need to reignite the emotion that he felt for you when you were together.
Luckily for you, guys are quite simple beings. We can be easily persuaded by girls if they know what they’re doing, and you can easily learn how to get him back using the methods I’m about to show you.
First of all, you need to start rediscovering enjoyment in your life. Start hooking up with your friends and update your Facebook profile whenever you are out or doing something cool.
By indirectly showing your ex boyfriend that you are not just moping about, desperate for his attention, he’s going to realize that you’re an independent girl, and you don’t need him as much as he thought.
Next, you need to let you ex boyfriend know that you have accepted the break up. This doesn’t mean going up to him and saying “I’m glad we’re not dating”. It means admitting that the relationship wasn’t working and that you need time apart.
What you do NOT want to do is spill your emotional guts all over the place, as that is a big turn off.
Once you start applying these initial steps, you are ready for the re-attraction process, which is where you truly learn how to get him back for good. But what is the re-attraction process?